Many of us like to avoid conflict. In fact, this desire for conflict avoidance is one reason bullies can be so successful. We’d rather just be quiet and nice and give the bully whatever she wants in the hope that she’ll just go away.
While this strategy works sometimes, sometimes you need to be a jerk. Okay, not a screaming jerk but someone who says no. Since Steve Jobs’ death the media has gone wild with stories about him. He’s close to being deified, but Forbes writer, Gene Marks, reminds us that Jobs was a jerk.
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Author:Suzanne Lucas
