A highly personal list
1. Have a kid. Nothing else comes close. 2. Learn a lot about something. A whole lot. 3. Learn a little about a whole lot of things. 4. Do something nice for someone with no expectation of reward or even acknowledgment. 5. Forgive yourself 6. Forgive someone else 7. Grow up (the one good thing about adolescence? It ENDS!) 8. Get over depression (oh damn. Don't JUMP). 9. Write a book (hey! Mine will be published in about 3 weeks!) 10. Learn that pain shared is lessened, but joy shared increased.
